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This is fundamental. Facial skin care 101.

Posted by: nyota0uhura on: September 21, 2008

Hi everybody!

You know how you build a house, from the foundation to the roof? Well, today, I’m going to talk about your make-up’s foundation (and no, I don’t mean liquid make-up).

First things first. As skins differ a lot, different skin types should heed different rules. But no matter your skin type, there is one thing we’ve all got in common: we should all use skin care. That’s right. Before any make-up goes on your face, you should feed it some yummy, perfect-for-it skin care. Now some women like to use a lot, some women are happiest when they can just use one cream. Both of these decisions are valid. I do it this way: I have a small range of facial creams which do the same thing, moisturise, in different variations. Moisturising is the most important thing about skin care of any kind. This counts for the entire body. Where the face is concerned, however, you’ve got to be a little discerning.

Do you have young skin (i.e. under 20 years of age) which tends to have some acne?

Use a cream that moisturises only a little and that is non-greasy. Ideally, have one that is actually made to fight blemishes.

I recommend this one by Garnier (site in German but you can go here for the English equivalent), which I still use on days where my skin isn’t doing so well, for example when I’m ill or getting my period. Hey, I’m just keeping it real here! Anyway, this cream is more of an opaque gel, it smells a little of fresh cucumber water, it’s absorbed quickly by the skin and it makes it nice, soft and keeps it hydrated.

Or this one by L’Oréal Paris (it’s the one to the very right). This one is for really desperate times and harder-to-get-rid of blemishes. It works like magic, I swear. Within an hour, my skin is less red and has calmed. This cream also leaves it super soft.

Are you between 20 and 35?

Let me just say this: you don’t need wrinkle cream yet! Many women think the earlier they use anti-wrinkle cream, the longer they will delay them. That is a myth, ladies. Skin care products which are meant to reduce wrinkles, lift, tighten and whatnot all contain substances that accelerate the renewal of the skin cells. That is why some, some of these products work. If you use them too early on, they will have the contrary effect: they will make your cells renew faster than they were programmed too, thus making you look older in the long term. How come? Cells, like everything living, have a life-span. Which can be shortened. You don’t want to do that.

Instead, focus on creams that moisturise (can’t say that enough), because a lot of skins get drier as they age (at least mine does) and are nutritious. Creams that contain some vitamins etc are fine too. The key here is to do it regularly. If you take care of your skin everyday, you will enjoy it, feel good and not need to worry about wrinkles for a long time. If you are really worried about those creases (which in my humble opinion, you shouldn’t be because you can be beautiful at any age and it’s not about wrinkles anyway), then use the time when you put on your cream to give your face a quick massage. Make the same movements, just stronger. And at the end, lift your chin and make a few vigorous, downwards-stroking motions. That helps double chins. Trust me, I know! This is good for circulation and facial muscles and it doesn’t even take up a lot of time. I know that, just like me, you wanna get out of the bathroom in as little time as possible. Even if it ends up taking half an hour or more. Right? Right.

For this category, I recommend this great cream by Vichy. It’s stabilising, hydrating, smells very lightly of peach (it also has a nice pale peachy colour), is absorbed quickly, leaves skin unbelievably smooth (like silk, I swear!), is non-greasy and hypoallergenic. It also contains Vichy thermal water. Is there anything to be missed here? No, I didn’t think so.

Are you over 35?

Then you need rich creams. Really chock-full of moisturising agents (I wonder if they wear blue suits), vitamins, enzymes and anything else you or the cosmetics companies can think of. Unfortunately, I don’t have any experience with those and can’t tell you much more about them. Except that from 35 onwards, it’s okay to start using anti-aging creams. But only if you really are beginning to have small wrinkles! Only then!

But wait, I can tell you more! Because I just asked my mother who is 49 and has the skin of a 25 year-old. I swear, I had better have inherited those genes or else I’m gonna fling myself out of the window. Actually, her skin now is a lot better than mine, except that it needs a lot more care and I’ve got a thyroid problem that affects my skin. Anyhoo: she says she prefers using oils by Décleor (like this one) as well as anti-wrinkle creams by Nuxe or L’Occitane. By the way, the L’Occitane apple-almond one smells so heavenly that I almost threw a fit when I realised I couldn’t use it on my skin yet (my mum and I bought that one together).

Last point of order: night creams, yes or no?

Opinions differ greatly on this one. My friend Carola swears it’s essential. I use one sort of every other night. My mum used one for several years and now claims it’s bollocks and has stopped using it (but what would she know, her skin looks like a babe’s bottom anyway). A lot of my friends don’t use night cream because the thought they could hasn’t even crossed their minds.

So these, ladies, are the few facts I know to be true:

- during the night, cells get some rest, they are in sleep mode and that makes them regenerate more easily (daytime stresses like sunshine, smog, extreme heat or cold are gone)

- the skin absorbs and processes creams faster (even really rich ones)

- some creams even contain agents that can only do their thing (whatever that may be) without light and thus you need to put them on at night

Personally, I love my Vichy NormaDerm Nuit cream. It’s rich, smells terrific and leaves velvet-like skin. It’s also against imperfections, which my skin sometimes has plenty of. It works for me but that doesn’t necessarily mean it’ll work for you. You’ve got to test one and pay close attention to how your skin responds. Then decide.

Major Make-Up Rule

Skin care goes before liquid make-up, powder and anything else. It’ll protect your skin, keep it soft and make whatever you put on top of it hold a whole lot better.

Now go feed your face! :)

Anna

Today, I became a woman. Lipsticks 101.

Posted by: nyota0uhura on: September 17, 2008

First and foremost, welcome to Big Diva! I hope you like it here and come back often!

Now let me tell you about today. Because today something happened that made me finally open this blog.

Today, I became a woman. But… you’ve always been a woman, right? I thought so too, yes. Okay, okay, first things first.

I have been looking for the perfect red lipstick for a long time. I have lipsticks in a myriad of colours, some of them indeed deep red. But they all matched my complexion perfectly. Which means, they were all in warm colours, usually in different kinds of berry tones. I have quite light skin (a friend of mine calls it Snow White skin) but it’s got a pinkish-golden hue in it. This means warm colours complement my skin tone, cold colours usually don’t. If, however, you’ve got pale skin with a pinkish-blueish hue in it, cold colours such as blues and certain yellows and greens will usually look quite good on you. But more about that in another post.

So, my dilemma was: all my lipsticks were berry shades. But I desperately wanted a kind of tomato/fire-engine red because at the moment, I’m just crazy about the styles of the 1940s and 1950s. This kind of colder red is quite femme fatale and neat but you have to get the perfect shade in order for it to do its magic. When you do, men will fawn over you and women will envy you for your boldness and cool sexiness.

I have known for a long time, deep down inside, that if I wanted that perfect cold red which would still match my complexion, I would need to get a Dior lipstick. Nobody does real reds like Dior. I’m not sure why that is, I just know that it’s like that.

So today, I finally went to a Dior counter and got myself the lipstick. Just one, the perfect one.

Hint

You can have many different coloured lipsticks – and in my humble opinion, you should! – but for every look you want to create there is usually one lipstick that will do. You just have to know where to look for it. Benefit Cosmetics for example rock the berry hues. Dior is great for true, cold reds. Chanel is great for orange tones and icy pink tones. Etc, etc. But you’ve come up with great colours by combining different lipsticks? I’m sure you have but I’m all about practicality. A look, no matter how sophisticated, has to withstand the test of your daily life and should not encumber you. If you mix lipsticks, you will have to carry all those you’ve used in your purse, so you can retain the same colour when you touch up. It’s much easier to just carry one, isn’t it?

So the Dior lipstick I bought was this: Rouge Diorific by Christian Dior, #013 Roulette Red. Once I’d chosen it, the nice Dior ladies plunked me down in their make-up chair in front of a light-bulbed mirror and put it on me. It’s great. It’s long-lasting but it doesn’t dry your lips out (that’s a very good sign right there). The texture is soft, it doesn’t smear easily and it even withstood me eating two sandwiches and drinking out of a bottle. It comes in the traditionally extravagant golden Dior packaging, which makes you feel like you just bought a little gem. It satisfies just about every need a woman shopping for make-up can have.

When I got home and took it out of the box, I knew it: I had just become a real woman. Something had been missing from my make-up life all those years and it was Rouge Diorific in Roulette Red. I used to think Dior was a brand for older ladies. Now I know it’s a brand for true ladies.

Extra lipstick advice

If you are working with deep and vibrant reds, I recommend using a lipstick brush to apply. The lipstick will really get in the creases of your lips and you can apply it more neatly, which is absolutely essential for popping reds.

Don’t wear vibrant reds with very tanned skin (unless you are actually black, in which case I say go for it). The golden-brown skin with vibrant or deep reds makes your face too dark. Use nude shades or light, sparkling colours when tanned. Lipsticks with a slight sparkle will make your lips look a bit fuller and they will complement (and compliment!) your tan by making it look more golden and glowing.

Don’t use very nude shades if you are pale. It will make your mouth disappear! Trust me, only skinny models with lots of airbrushing and professional lighting in their pictures truly look good with fully nude coloured lips. It doesn’t work well in real life.

Lipstick Must

Wear your lipstick with pride, especially if it’s a sizzling colour! There is nothing unsexier than someone who is ashamed of their lipstick. If you’re gonna go to all the trouble of beautifying yourself, you’ve got to make it count! So walk the walk, pout those lips and prepare to turn heads.

Now get crackin’ on painting those lips red! And after that, the town!

Anna

ps: so funny, when I went to get the link to the Dior site, I saw that they gave almost exactly the same application advice as I just did: use a brush! I have this retractable one from Sephora, which is good because that way, no powdery stuff can get on it.